Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Dating

Here's some dating advice from somebody who doesn't do much of it:
DO IT.  Seriously. Go on as many dates WITH AS MANY DIFFERENT PEOPLE as possible.
Some plus sides to diverse dating:

  • Getting to know other people outside of school/social groups
    * Even people you know may be a lot different one-on-one, often good different.
  • Learning what you really like.
    *you might think you like somebody because they look a certain way, but maybe what you really look for is an engaging personality, etc.
  • Time away from your significant other
    *I know they are important to you, and that's fine, but you need to realize other people exist - not even just as potential partners but as human beings who matter.
  • Spend time having fun with good people who like you for YOU (otherwise they wouldn't be out on a date with you!)
  • Spend time away from technology (says the online blogger)
    *there is good food, fresh air, new experiences to be encountered. Netflix is an amazing friend, but maybe you need some space?
  • Gain self-confidence
    *Going on dates is a great way to feel like you're worthwhile, fun to be around, and special. Help yourself feel good by spending time with people who make you feel that way.

If you choose to date in high school, keep in mind that going on a date is different from "dating" someone. If you want to keep it casual, that's your right. As always, exercise your right to choose. You CAN say "no" to anything you're not comfortable with.

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